Saturday, September 26, 2020

Sept 27, 2020 Montevallo "A Change of Mind"



“Change of Mind”

Wayne McLaughlin

September 27, 2020 – 17th Sunday after Pentecost


Ezekiel 18.25-32 NRSV

25 Yet you say, “The way of the Lord is unfair.” Hear now, O house of Israel: Is my way unfair? Is it not your ways that are unfair? 26 When the righteous turn away from their righteousness and commit iniquity, they shall die for it; for the iniquity that they have committed they shall die. 27 Again, when the wicked turn away from the wickedness they have committed and do what is lawful and right, they shall save their life. 28 Because they considered and turned away from all the transgressions that they had committed, they shall surely live; they shall not die. 29 Yet the house of Israel says, “The way of the Lord is unfair.” O house of Israel, are my ways unfair? Is it not your ways that are unfair?

30 Therefore I will judge you, O house of Israel, all of you according to your ways, says the Lord God. Repent and turn from all your transgressions; otherwise iniquity will be your ruin. 31 Cast away from you all the transgressions that you have committed against me, and get yourselves a new heart and a new spirit! Why will you die, O house of Israel? 32 For I have no pleasure in the death of anyone, says the Lord God. Turn, then, and live.


Philippians 2.3-7 NRSV

3 Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others. 5 Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus,

6 who, though he was in the form of God,
    did not regard equality with God
    as something to be exploited,
7 but emptied himself,
    taking the form of a slave,
    being born in human likeness.


Matthew 21.23-32     NRSV

The Authority of Jesus Questioned

23 When he entered the temple, the chief priests and the elders of the people came to him as he was teaching, and said, “By what authority are you doing these things, and who gave you this authority?” 24 Jesus said to them, “I will also ask you one question; if you tell me the answer, then I will also tell you by what authority I do these things. 25 Did the baptism of John come from heaven, or was it of human origin?” And they argued with one another, “If we say, ‘From heaven,’ he will say to us, ‘Why then did you not believe him?’ 26 But if we say, ‘Of human origin,’ we are afraid of the crowd; for all regard John as a prophet.” 27 So they answered Jesus, “We do not know.” And he said to them, “Neither will I tell you by what authority I am doing these things.”

The Parable of the Two Sons

28 “What do you think? A man had two sons; he went to the first and said, ‘Son, go and work in the vineyard today.’ 29 He answered, ‘I will not’; but later he changed his mind and went. 30 The father went to the second and said the same; and he answered, ‘I go, sir’; but he did not go. 31 Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are going into the kingdom of God ahead of you. 32 For John came to you in the way of righteousness and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes believed him; and even after you saw it, you did not change your minds and believe him.


SERMON TEXT:


The Room

Brie Larson, the actress who was the first woman to play the part of Captain Marvel is the same actress who won an Oscar for Best Actress in the movie Room. That film was based on the novel of the same name by Emma Donoghue.

Room is about a woman who was abducted and raped and made to live in a small garden shed, eleven feet by eleven feet. She was continually raped in that shed over the seven years she spent there. Her baby boy was born there. The story begins as her son, Jack, is having his fifth birthday. All he has ever known of the world is that 11 x 11 room. That’s his world. It is satisfactory for him because that is all he knows. 

Jack is like the chief priests and Pharisees that find Jesus in the Temple teaching about the Kingdom of God. Their form of faith is like living in a small room, a room with small dimensions. Now, don’t misunderstand; they are not bad people. Their motives are pure. They want to serve the Lord and obey the Lord. Their desire is to honor God. But their way of doing it is small.

The word Pharisee means “the pure ones.” And their concern for purity is so extreme that they don’t want to rub shoulders with the “sinners.” They are afraid of being contaminated. It was an ancient form of Fundamentalism. Fundamentalists of any stripe are always striving to keep a distance from “worldly” things and people. One way to do that is to live in a small, walled-off room. 


Two sons

Jesus tells a story about a father and two sons. The father tells the oldest son to go work in the vineyard, but the son says, “No, I will not work today.” But as he goes on his way he changes his mind, and goes to the vineyard to work. The father tells his next son to go work in the vineyard. This boy says, “Okay, I’ll go work today.” But instead he goes straight to the mall to see his girlfriend.

Jesus asks the chief priests and Pharisees standing in front of him, “Which son did the will of his father?” They answer, “The oldest son.” Jesus says, “That’s right, the one who changed his mind.” Then Jesus looks into their eyes and says, 

        “Why haven’t you changed your minds?”

Now, to be fair, the Pharisees and the chief priests are like the little boy, Jack—they have gotten used to their narrow frame of mind. They like their religious system. They follow the rules, and they feel safe. They also feel a little superior to all the people who are not as devoted as they are to their faith. They don’t feel the need for a larger space to practice faith in their God. They are not bad people. They have faith. They want to honor God. But they are captive to their small-minded faith.


The Baptizer

They had begun this conversation by asking about John the Baptizer. So, at this point Jesus brings John back into the conversation. He reminds these pious men that John came with a message about the necessity of changing one’s mind and showing this change by letting him dunk them in the water of the Jordan River.

Jesus reminds these religious leaders that tax collectors and prostitutes responded to John’s message; they had a change of mind and were plunged into the waters of death in order to be raised up into a new way of life. 

“You saw them,” says Jesus to the chief priests, “You saw them go down into the water as a sign of their entrance into the kingdom. And you have watched them lead a different kind of life. You have seen how God transformed them—how their minds changed. Yet, you have not changed your mind. Why not?”


We change

I’m sure we have all changed our minds about some things. We no longer believe in Santa Claus or tooth fairies. I’ve changed my mind about broccoli and yogurt, which I used to not like. I still haven’t changed my mind about oysters though.

Some people change their minds and leave the Republican Party and become Democrats. And vice versa.

In 1977 I changed my mind about the denomination I was part of, and jumped through the hoops I had to jump through in order to become a Presbyterian minister of Word and Sacrament.

But the change of mind that Jesus is talking about is not a matter of taste or preference, it’s much deeper.


Paul’s explanation

St. Paul helps us understand the words of Jesus about changing the mind when he writes to the Christians in Rome and says, Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds. (Ro. 12.2) 

The Good News Translation makes it more clear:

Do not conform yourselves to the standards of this world, but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. 

At another time when Paul was in prison he wrote a letter to the Christians in Philippi and said:

            Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus. 

So, evidently the change of mind that Jesus spoke of has something to do with us thinking like Jesus. It is a matter of allowing the mind of Christ to become part of our minds.

It’s not a matter of giving up your mind; rather, it is taking on additional mind—the mind of Christ. It is an enlargement of the mind. 

If our God is the infinite creative Mind that made the universe, and if Christ is the embodied Mind of God, then when we take into ourselves the mind of Christ, we are actually entering into the Mind of God. We are taking our puny little minds and expanding them with the creative, loving Mind of God. To “change our mind” is to “expand our mind” in a Christological fashion.


Emptying

Paul goes on in the second chapter of Philippians to describe the “mind of Christ.” He says, 

Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus,
6 who, though he was in the form of God,
    did not regard equality with God
    as something to be exploited (or hung onto),
7 but emptied himself, and became a servant

The mind of Christ is the mind that empties itself of ego. It takes the form of a servant. It humbles itself. It has no ambition to move up. Rather, it moves down. It stoops to serve.

It empties itself. It is not full of itself.

The religious leaders who stood a few feet from Jesus were not willing to empty themselves. They were full of themselves.

In contrast, the tax collectors and prostitutes were already so empty inside that they saw emptying themselves as a welcome opportunity to become their true selves. They were the ones Jesus had talked about when he said, Blessed are the poor in spirit. They were already almost completely empty. 

To empty ourselves of our egoism is the way into the Kingdom of God. The Kingdom is “full of emptiness.”

John the Baptizer was a threat to those who were concerned about status or upward mobility. His message seemed crazy. He was inviting people to downward mobility. That’s why they were put down into the water before they could be raised up from the water. Rinsed of respectability. Washed of the stain of status. Cleansed of clinging to power.

To indwell the mind of Christ is to expand the horizon of our love. To become inclusive. To welcome all of God’s children into our circle of love. To expand our minds to receive more of reality. To love wider and deeper and longer.

To have the mind of Christ is a new way of thinking. A new way of seeing life. A new way of seeing yourself. A new way of seeing the people you see every day.

The tax collectors (traitors to their fellow Jews), and the prostitutes (the immoral to their fellow Jews) lived lives of shame. They were the low-down of the low-downs. They were full of self-loathing. But they went down to the river and drowned their shame. They came out of the water dripping with self-respect. They went into the water as nobodies; they emerged from the water as somebodies. They were cleansed of self-loathing. They walked back to the bank of the river and deposited themselves on the ground dignity. 

They got new minds. They got new self-respect. And they got new jobs.


Broader

The Englishman Frederick William Faber (d. 1863) wrote the hymn that says:

There’s a wideness in God’s mercy,
Like the wideness of the sea;
There’s a kindness in His justice,
Which is more than liberty…

For the love of God is broader 
Than the measure of our mind…

 And the love of God is broader because the Mind of God is broader.


Freedom

In the film Room the mother and son finally escape their little room. For five year old Jack it was a marvelous discovery of how big and wonderful the world is. He saw things he couldn’t even have imagined. He got to know his grandparents. He got to pet a real dog, which became his pet. He went to all kinds of places and saw all kinds of people. His reality had suddenly exploded with pleasures and relationships.

Jesus asked the religious leaders why they had not changed their minds. Why were they content with their little eleven by eleven room of faith?

I believe that even today Jesus is asking us the same question. Why have you not changed your mind?

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we woke up every morning and put on the mind of Christ and walked out our door to see the world in a different light. To see the spark of God in every person we met. To hear the groaning of creation and to hear the voice of God calling us to be part of the healing of creation.

It would be something like being born all over again.



[text = 1700 words = 13:30 time]


Sunday, September 6, 2020

Sept 6, 2020 Leeds "But I Say..."

 

Sermon: “But I say…”

wayne mclaughlin

 

Leeds Presbyterian Church

September 6, 2020 – (worship through Zoom)

 

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Deuteronomy 19.15-21   CEB

15 A solitary witness against someone in any crime, wrongdoing, or in any sort of misdeed that might be done is not sufficient. The decision must stand by two or three witnesses. 16 Now if a spiteful witness comes forward against someone, so as to testify against them falsely, 17 the two persons who have a legal suit must stand before the Lord, before the priests, and before the judges that are in office at that time. 18 The judges will look into the situation very carefully. If it turns out that the witness is a liar—that the witness has given false testimony against his fellow Israelite— 19 then you must do to him what he had planned to do to his fellow Israelite. Remove such evil from your community! 20 The rest of the people will hear about this and be afraid. They won’t do that sort of evil thing among you again. 21 Show no mercy on this point: life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot.

 

Matthew 18.15-20      CEB

15 “If your brother or sister sins against you, go and correct them when you are alone together. If they listen to you, then you’ve won over your brother or sister. 16 But if they won’t listen, take with you one or two others so that every word may be established by the mouth of two or three witnesses.[a] 17 But if they still won’t pay attention, report it to the church. If they won’t pay attention even to the church, treat them as you would a Gentile and tax collector. 18 I assure you that whatever you fasten on earth will be fastened in heaven. And whatever you loosen on earth will be loosened in heaven. 19 Again I assure you that if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, then my Father who is in heaven will do it for you. 20 For where two or three are gathered in my name, I’m there with them.”

 

a.   Matthew 18:16Deut 19:15

 

  

SERMON TEXT:

 

Can you imagine Jesus as a Sunday School teacher? He gets up on Sunday morning, takes a shower, eats a piece of toast, drinks a cup of coffee, and gets on his donkey to ride to Synagogue.

 He greets everyone as they enter the Sunday School class. He starts with a prayer—one he wrote: Our Father, who art in heaven…

 Then he says, Okay, everyone turn to Deuteronomy 19. No, Simon, it’s in the Old Testament. What’s that, Miriam? It’s the fifth book—Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, Deuteronomy.

Now, Hezekiah, would you read verses 15-21?

 (Hezekiah reads aloud about the procedure for judging someone who has done something wrong. The need for two or three witnesses and the decision of the appointed judges. He finishes up with these verses: Remove such evil from your community! The rest of the people will hear about this and be afraid. They won’t do that sort of evil thing among you again.  Show no mercy on this point: life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot.)

 Jesus thanks Hezekiah for reading the passage. Then he says:

You have heard that it was said, “An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.” But I say to you, Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also. (see Mt. 5)

(Everybody in the class stares at him and says “Huh?”)

 Jesus continues: Yeah, I know what it says in Deuteronomy, but I’m telling you that we need to go beyond that legalistic eye for an eye stuff. If we keep treating each other that way, pretty soon we’ll all be blind.

(The class smiles.)

 Jesus says: And I don’t know why Moses said Show no mercy. Maybe he was having a bad day. I have to disagree with him. Our God is a God of mercy. When a person is caught acting out—doing something destructive or unhealthy—it doesn’t accomplish anything if we just punish him—that’s not the point. What we should be doing is giving him a second chance—throw some love his way. Our God is not about punishment. Our God is all about mercy.

 (People in the class nod their heads.)

 (Ezra raises his hand.) “But what about that verse that tells us to remove him from our synagogue? That makes sense, doesn’t it? After all, one rotten apple spoils the whole barrel.”

 Jesus looks at Ezra who is always asking astute questions. Ezra, if our goal is to make the wrong-doer ashamed, that would be a good procedure. But shame doesn’t lead to redemption. That just makes a person feel more self-hatred. It doesn’t set people free.

 Let me offer a better way—a more excellent way. Let’s say that the woman who committed a sin was our friend. But she messed up. What we really want to happen is to see her restored to our fellowship. We want her to be our friend again. Friendship is our goal. That’s what God wants—for all of us to be friends with each other, and with God.

 So, I would say that the person who has been wronged should go directly to the wrong-doer and gently talk with her about being reconciled. If the wrong-doer comes around, then harmony has been restored. Thank God!

 Now, if she refuses to take responsibility for her actions, then take two or three witnesses and go back to her and discuss it again. If that doesn’t work, then the situation must be told to the proper people in our community of faith so that they can communicate with her and give her another chance. If she still doesn’t respond, then we have to get really serious about her spiritual health.

 Like Moses said, we set her apart, but not as an outcast! Rather, as a special person of concern. We don’t cut her off from our Synagogue. We make her a special project of our love.[1]

 (Sarah raises her hand.)

 Yes, Sarah.

 “Perhaps we could approach her like we do the Gentiles and tax collectors.”

 Good point, Sarah. Yes, we could welcome her into God’s loving fellowship just as we do the “outsiders” like the so-called Gentiles and tax collectors.

 Seth says: “Let’s not beat around the bush. We don’t say Gentiles and tax collectors, do we? We say pagans and traitors.”

 Jesus says, You’re absolutely right, Seth. We welcome the pagans and traitors here in our Synagogue. And that’s the way we should approach the wrong-doer. She’s like the lost sheep. Remember that story I told you last Sunday? About the shepherd who left the 99 sheep in order to find the one lost sheep? Well, she is that sheep.

 Jonathan, who never missed a Sunday, spoke up and said: “Jesus, you’ve given me a lot to think about. But aren’t you fiddling with what Moses told us to do? After all, it’s right there plain as day in the Hebrew. You can’t change what the Scriptures say, can you?”

 Jesus thought this might come up. He had already thought of an analogy. It’s like this, he said—you know when a message comes up on your screen and tells you that you need to update your app? Or maybe you try to use a particular program and a message pops up and says that your software is not up to date? Well, it’s like that. The Bible occasionally has to be updated.

 Suzanna whispers to Miriam, “What’s he talking about?” Miriam says, “I don’t know.”

 Jesus looks around at the puzzled faces. Oh yeah, he thinks to himself, they don’t know about that yet.

 Jesus continues: The program that Moses gave us for dealing with sinners was a good one at the time. But now we’ve moved on. An updated program, ah, a revised approach is needed. Not punishment, but mercy. Not shame, but affirmation. Not excommunication, but a welcoming space. Not pointing the finger, but open arms. In fact, that could be our motto: Not one finger, but two arms. Get it? Instead of pointing your index finger and blaming someone, open both arms wide as if welcoming a person into your friendly space. Not one finger, but two arms.

 “Yeah, I like that,” says Nathan.

 Peter speaks up. “Jesus, how many times do we have to forgive someone?” Jesus says, Peter, that’s next Sunday’s lesson. Ask me that next week.

 Jesus looks around the class. Any questions?

 Jude speaks up: “What if this process for reconciliation doesn’t work?”

 Jesus takes a deep breath. Well, Jude, don’t forget—we’re not doing this all by ourselves. God is our partner during this whole process; and it is a process. So, be patient. I imagine the Lord would tell us something like this: “Where two or three are gathered together in my Name, trying to restore friendship, I will be there with them.”

 A few minutes later the class ended, and Jesus hugged everyone as they went out the door, saying, Peace be with you.

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 The Eyes Have It

 To sustain personal relationships can be tricky. Long time professor of social psychology at the University of Washington in Seattle, John Gottman, is an expert on the subject of marital relationships. He and his wife, Julie, founded the Gottman Institute where they have studied thousands of married couples. They will ask a couple to tell their story—how they met and courted, their highs and lows as a couple, and how their marriage has changed over the years. Then the couple will be asked to discuss a contentious issue that has arisen in their relationship.

 Dr. Gottman says that after watching a couple interact for just one hour, he can predict with 94 percent accuracy whether that couple will divorce within three years.

 How can he tell? It’s not from the anger that the couples express, which surprised me. He says anger does not predict separation or divorce. The biggest warning signs, he says, are indicators of contempt.

 These include: 

sarcasm 

sneering 

hostile humor – and worst of all 

eye-rolling.

 

These little acts effectively say “You are worthless” to the other person. Want to see if a couple will end up in divorce court? Watch them discuss a contentious topic, and see if either partner rolls his or her eyes.[2]

  

The Approach

 When we go to meet another person to try and restore friendship, we need to go with the right attitude. Our goal is not to make them feel guilty or ashamed. It is not to win an argument. It is not to feel superior. The goal is to restore the relationship. You “win” if the relationship is restored. And we must be realistic: You win some, and you lose some.

 Don’t blame. Don’t point fingers, literally or with words. Remember the motto: Not one finger, but two arms.

 When working toward reconciliation, don’t get drawn into an argument or debate. Mostly listen. Affirm the other person. Be Mr. Rogers. Be Jesus for them.

 

Reconciled

 The Good News of Jesus Christ is about reconciliation.

 Here is a verse from the New Testament that sums up the gospel in one sentence:

In Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting the message of reconciliation to us. (2 Corinthians 5.19)

 God is the friend of every person. In spite of our sins. And God sends us out into life with the ministry of reconciliation. Our job is to make friends with everyone we can. And to let them know that God is already their Friend.

 In our divisive world, that sounds radical. Even crazy. But we can transcend our natural instinct to get revenge—to get back at those who do wrong. We can do it because the Holy Spirit is our Helper and our Strength.

 

 

 

[Text - 1700 words; 13 min, 36 sec.]

 



[1] This interpretation I have adopted from John Henson: Good as New: A Radical Retelling of the Scriptures (New York: O Books, 2004), 156. See the translation and the footnote.

[2] Arthur C. Brooks, Love Your Enemies: How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt (New York: Broadside Books, 2019), 23.

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